Trying to blog from my iPhone. Maybe I can try uploading a photo too?
I shall upload the tribute painting for 9/11 by John Gowdy =)
Peace out!
TheGirl - MeiFern 1:12 PM
Friday, July 01, 2011
Yuki Yaki
So much have happened. And so much have changed.
But certain friendship remains the same!
Went out for dinner with Em, Daya and Aidil yesterday at Yuki Yaki. No pictures cause we were so busy eating and cooking and laughing.
Didnt eat much cause I think the chicken quality dropped. ALOT. Every piece of chicken that Aidil cooked for me, I'll end up saying "Not Nice" and throw it back onto his plate.
Ended up cooking crabstick until it's all buttery and crispy. I even cooked the crabstick on the sushi!
I cooked nuggets too. It's already cooked but heating it up on the pan makes it buttery and crispy too!
I'm craving for Seoul Garden's garlic chicken!
Cooked ice cream next! Daya was so happy with she got to scrape off her first ice cream. We ended up pouring peach tea and eating from the pan. Yums!
Went to the arcade after dinner and played Daytona. Epic win I swear. Aidil was in first place, Daya was second and I was third for 7 laps. Then on the final lap, I caught up to them and I ended up second, Daya was first and Aidil was third. Haha *laughs at his face*
Bishibashi was fun. AND painful.
Went home after that cause it's too late do walk around and do shopping.
Till next time ~
TheGirl - MeiFern 9:50 AM
Monday, June 06, 2011
Born This Way
Many a times, I see people saying this "I'm not gonna change for you blah blah blah, don't like me then no need to be friends with me blah blah blah cause I am BORN THIS WAY."
The line BORN THIS WAYhave been overused, until people don't know the true meaning of it anymore. And I am anal about such things.
Actually, I would say people don't know what it means which explains them putting this line in every excuse for not changing or being this way.
"You think I'm annoying? Deal with it cause I was born this way."
"I'm loud and irritating? Deal with it cause I was born this way."
"I can't spell properly? Deal with it cause I was born this way."
"I can't speak English/Mandarin? Deal with it cause I was born this way."
"I'm a liar? Deal with it cause I was born this way."
Not good excuse people.
If you're loud, irritating and annoying, it's not cause you were born this way.
If you can't spell or speak properly, it's not cause you were born this way. It's cause you refuse to educate yourself.
And if you're a liar, it's not cause you were born this way. It's cause you prefer to keep the truth to yourself.
Born this way MEANS,
"I'm gay/lesbian. Deal with it cause I was born this way."
"I'm a Negro. Deal with it cause I was born this way."
"I'm an Asian. Deal with it cause I was born this way."
It's something you can't change no matter how much you try.
If you're gay/lesbian, embrace it. No matter how many girls og guys you kiss or sleep with, it won't change who you really are.
If you're born with a certain skin colour, embrace it. Because you can't change it. Maybe MJ did but deep in his heart, he is still a Negro. He can't change that.
If you're eyes are black, or blue or brown, you can't change it either. You may argue that contact lens does, but you yourself know the real color and you can't change that.
See the difference now?
If someone have been telling you that your blah blah something something needs to change or you need to change your something something, then STOP saying "I won't cause I was born this way."
It's total crap and you're just living in denial.
TheGirl - MeiFern 11:49 AM
Wednesday, June 01, 2011
Change
. . . .
is something that people have to go through in their lives. But is it good change or a bad change?
Some people eventually change for the better. But some change for the worse.
If you changed for the better, then it's good because it shows the effort that you are willing to put in to change for the better. If friends are true to you, they will tell you that they wished you will change because they hold you close to their heart and want the best for you. This is what true friends do to one another.
For your part as a friend, shouldn't you do keep friendship going and change for the better as well?
Then another issue comes about. Why can't they accept you for who you are?
But have you thought of how much they put up with you during your course of friendship?
Friends care for one another, they look out for each other. They are another family to you and would of course want the best for you be it for now or for the future.
Having said my piece, are you willing to heed your friends' advice and change for the better for it benefits your future and your career?
TheGirl - MeiFern 2:34 PM
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Friends Shit. The last time I blogged was April. It's becoming a once a month post blog now.
My cousins and nieces from Bangkok came and went. Felt so fucking stressed with my cousin around. Such an asshole he is, I'm seriously glad he went back. Being the ungrateful person that he is, he actually scolded my mother even though she was the one who paid for ALL his expenses. From air tickets to every single cent he spent his money on in Singapore, is all paid for by my mother.
I'm seriously gonna object to him being here in the future. THAT, will be his last trip.
But I do miss my nieces. I dread to think about what type of person they will be when they grow up. With the kind of upbringing from my ass of a cousin, I dare to say they will not have good attitudes and character when they grow up. So saddening to know that two great kids will have their lives ruined by a monster.
Friendship have been on the rocks with some people recently. I totally give up on one of you, you might know who you are if you happen to read this.
I no longer care who's balls you wanna carry. Just don't piss me off or hurt my friends. Cause I might be the one that bring about your downfall from where you are seating now.
I think that it's good to have aims and finally achieve them. But get it through the proper channel. Through that way, you'll feel proud for your hard work as it's something that you worked hard for. But if you feel that carrying balls is hard work, then I guess it is to you. After all, to carry some balls, you start to drink and club.
As a friend, it hurts to see you slowly changing into a different person. It hurts to hear people talking shit about you and it hurts even more to know that every single shit about you that came out is true.
There are always two paths to take to climb up a ladder.
1. You work hard. Put in your effort and passion for people to see, and overtime, you get recognize. The road is fucking long but you are more likely to stay up longer and people will respect you for your hard work. If you fall, you still have the people who respect you to catch you and keep you going.
or
2. You work hard. At carrying balls. In front of the bigwigs, you are the model person they want to have in an organization. But once they are not around, you start throwing your weight around with your nose high up in the air. It takes you awhile to get up. In fact, you'll zoom up. But without respect from the people, you are more likely to topple from your seat. In the process, you'll lose your friends and at the end of the day, you are all alone.
Choose wisely.
And as for you babe, I don't know but maybe you have heard people saying that I have been talking shit about you. Yes I have. But that is because I can't stand the way you are behaving anymore.
I don't understand why are you trying so hard to fit in when you clearly can't. You are just making a fool out of yourself. People are all laughing at you to me and I can't do anything because it's true.
People are asking me to talk to you and knock some sense into you but I can't because I know you won't listen as you are stubborn.
I don't want our friendship to fall apart. I really treasure all the moments we have. But I honestly cannot bring myself to talk to you because I am just so angry with the way you are behaving.
You force your way into cliques, you invite yourself out with them, everyone have been bitching about you to me. I know that so many times, they make fun of you and your english but you just don't realise that.
They have been quoting words and phrases from you and then laughing. But I cannot deny because it's true.
I just hope you will think through your actions and choose wisely.
Went to chill out with Yiling, Nick, Jena, Ruby, Min Quan and Aidil at Home Club yesterday. It was fun. I think I had more than I can take. Around 3 or 4 glasses? Previously was just 2 glasses and it took me awhile to finish.
Left quite early at around 2 plus in the morning.
Jena says I was talking crap while walking to take a cab and Aidil told me I keep asking him to cut his hair and go to work. Did I drunk dial anyone else?
I miss clubbing. But really tight on cash. So how?
My 20th Birthday Had a fabulous birthday with my oh so awesome gang, Aidil, Drew, Zaki, Ruby, Ayu, Nazeehah, Joanne and Emerine!
Steamboat for dinner and we played wii! Had a new game, Ju-On. Damn scary at first lah but then end up like boring cause all Aidil did was to find the battery for the torch in the game.
The rest went back after awhile but Aidil, Joanne and Emerine stayed over for the night. Had so much fun talking and playing game!
Thank you to all my lovers for giving me such a happy and awesome birthday!!
Bangkok Trip 08 Apr 11 to 15 Apr 11 Went for a short gateaway with Aidil, Ibrahim and Joanne. Stayed at my Aunt's house in Bangkok. Basically it's just shopping and sight seeing. However, main highlight was SongKran Fest!!
Serious fun I had but the powder was irritating. Luckily Kao San Road didn't allow people to play it in the main place.
And on top of it, my twin nieces are in Singapore! Such a pity the father is here also. Pissing me off every single day WTF.
Sorry if you all didn't have much fun as planned. If there is a next time, I promise I wont throw a hissy fit and make sure everyone have fun. I really had fun with all of you guys this trip and I love everyone of you! But YOU know I love you the most!!
